Getting started
What types of accounts are there?
Member: for clients, with bookmarks and reviews. Individual profile: one profile of your own. Agency: profiles of several workers, an agency page and managers who work on the agency profiles. Owners of themed websites join the partner programme on the Partners page.
Do I need an account to use the site?
No. Without an account you can browse the directory, the map, profiles, agencies and reviews, report a profile or a review and use the contact form. Reviews, bookmarks and saved searches need a member account; publishing profiles needs an individual or agency account.
How do I register?
Press “Register”, choose the account type, enter your name, e-mail and a password, then open the link in the confirmation e-mail. Until the e-mail is confirmed the dashboard stays closed; you can send the e-mail again from the “Check your e-mail” page.
Can I have several accounts with one e-mail?
No: one account per mailbox. Variants of the same address count as one (letter case, dots in a Gmail name, “+tags”).
Can I change my account type later?
Not by yourself. Write to us and explain what you need; the administration decides.
For clients
How do I find a profile?
Choose a country and a city, use the filters, the map or the search. You can compare profiles side by side and look at city tours, the profiles that visit your city soon.
How do bookmarks, saved searches and hiding work?
The heart button adds a profile to your bookmarks. A saved search sends you new matching profiles once a day. “Hide” removes a profile from your results.
How do I contact a profile?
Use the form on the profile: your message goes to the advertiser by e-mail, and the reply comes to the address you enter. Messages pass an automatic filter.
Who can leave reviews?
Only members (client accounts): one review per profile, with a rating from 1 to 5 and a text about your own experience. Some reviews are checked by a moderator first. The owner of the profile may answer. Fake and abusive reviews are removed; report one with the button on the review.
Someone added me to a blacklist or marked me as unsafe. What can I do?
On the page of a blacklist entry press “Dispute”; the entry is hidden until a moderator decides. Marks from the safety list are disputed through the dispute form for clients. The answer comes by e-mail.
For profile owners and agencies
How do I add my profile?
Register as an individual profile or an agency, confirm your e-mail, press “Add Profile” and fill in the form. A moderator checks the profile; it appears in the directory after approval and once it has the minimum number of approved photos.
Why can’t I see my profile in the directory?
The profile is still being checked; it has too few approved photos; you paused it; or a moderator removed it. The reason is shown in profile management, and you can fix the profile or send an appeal. Profiles of a blocked account are hidden as well.
Why are my text changes not shown at once?
Changes to the text of a published profile are checked by a moderator first; until then the old text is shown. While a change is waiting you can withdraw it.
What rules apply to photos and videos?
Every photo and video is checked by a moderator. Rejected files are not shown, and the reason is written next to them. The number and size of files are limited by the site; a watermark may be added automatically.
What is “Available now”?
The owner of a profile can switch this mark on. It shows that the person is free right now and turns off by itself after the time set by the site. Visitors can filter the directory by it.
How do I set my schedule and tours?
In profile management set the working hours, exceptions for single dates and tours, that is the cities you will visit and when.
What does the verified badge mean, and how do I get it?
Send a short video in the Verification section; moderators compare it with the photos of the profile. If your face is not clearly visible in the gallery, add photos with a recognizable face as well. It is a check of the person on the photos, not an identity document check and not a guarantee of service quality. Only moderators see the files; they are deleted 7 days after the decision. An express check, if available, moves the request to the front of the queue.
Can I pause or delete a profile?
“Pause” hides the profile without moderation and switches it back with one button. Deleting a profile removes its photos, videos, stories, contacts, reviews and bookmarks for good; the remaining time of paid statuses is not refunded, except for the rights described in the terms of use.
How does an agency manage workers?
An agency creates any number of worker profiles, can import profiles from a file or its website, keeps an agency page and invites managers by e-mail. Managers work on the profiles the agency assigns to them; the team and the wallet stay with the agency.
How do I protect my photos from theft?
In the Protection section list the sites where you found your photos and track the status. Use the Report button or the removal form to ask for removal on this site.
Statuses, Gems and payments
What does Paramour sell?
Paramour is an independent advertising platform. It earns only from advertising: paid statuses (VIP, Platinum, Gold, Silver, Bronze), other approved visibility products. Paramour takes no commissions, booking fees, service fees or share of what advertisers earn.
Who sets the prices in profiles?
Each advertiser sets their own prices, currency and conditions. Paramour does not set, negotiate, collect or process these payments.
What are Gems (GEM)?
Gems are the internal unit of the Paramour Wallet. They are used only to buy Paramour advertising products. Gems are not money, cryptocurrency or an investment: they cannot be withdrawn and cannot be sent to other users. Statutory refund rights are not affected.
How do statuses work?
VIP is a place in the VIP list on the home page; it works together with any other status and does not change the order in other lists. In all lists profiles go in this order: Platinum, Gold, Silver, Bronze, then free profiles. Paid profiles of the same level take turns at the top every few minutes, verified profiles go above unverified ones of the same level, and new profiles get the NEW label for a short time. Statuses are bought with gems for a month; renewing adds a month. In cities with more competition Platinum and Gold may cost more. Prices and the full order are in your dashboard under Statuses and prices.
How do I get Gems?
Online payment is not available yet. Gems come from a promo code (dashboard → Wallet), rewards for registration and reviews, the referral programme and the site administration. The history, a CSV file and receipts are in the Wallet tab.
A payment in Gems looks wrong. What do I do?
Check the history in the Wallet tab and write to us through the contact form with the date and the operation. Refunds and corrections are made by the administration.
Safety and privacy
A photo of mine was published by someone else. What do I do?
Press “Report” on the profile and choose the reason, or use the removal form. Cases with minors and with content published without consent are checked first.
How do I report a profile or a review?
Press “Report” on the profile or on the review and choose the reason. You do not need an account for this.
What is the safety list?
A tool for owners of verified profiles to mark an unsafe client by e-mail or phone. The contact itself is never shown to other advertisers.
How do I protect my account?
Switch on two-factor authentication in Settings and keep the backup codes. We send an e-mail when someone signs in from a new device. Agencies invite managers instead of sharing their password.
Account
How do I change my e-mail or password?
In Settings. A new e-mail needs your current password, can be changed up to three times a day and must be confirmed; the old address receives a notice.
How do I download my data?
Settings → “Export” downloads a file with the data of your account.
How do I delete my account?
Settings → “Delete account”: enter your password and the word DELETE. Your profiles, photos, the reviews on them, bookmarks and the Gem balance are deleted for good. Appeals and verification records are deleted together with the account. Reports you sent may be kept without a link to your account, as evidence against abuse. Before deleting, you can ask through the contact form for a refund of purchased Gems you have not used.
I forgot my password or my account is blocked.
Press “Forgot your password?” on the sign-in page and enter your e-mail; the link works for one hour. If the account is blocked, the sign-in page shows the reason and a link to an appeal. For anything else, write through the contact form and check the spam folder for our answer.