Most people are a little nervous before their first meeting with a companion. Good etiquette here is not complicated. It comes down to four things: be clear, be on time, be clean and respect a no. Companions remember clients who get these right, and they are the ones who get a reply next time.
Before: agree on everything that matters
Read the profile first. Services, limits, prices, languages and contact preferences are usually written there. Asking about something that is already answered is the fastest way to get no reply.
Then send a short, polite message with the essentials:
- the day and time you would like,
- how long you want to book,
- incall (at their place) or outcall (your hotel or home, with the area or hotel name),
- anything specific, phrased as a question rather than a demand.
Agree on the price and length before the meeting, not during it. If you are not sure which format suits you, our guide to privát, escort and erotic massage explains the differences.
Avoid explicit messages before you have met. Many companions simply ignore them, and they are often the first sign of a difficult client.
Booking for outcall
If she comes to you, check with your hotel that visitors are allowed, and say which hotel you are in. Have the room tidy, towels available and the shower working. Expect her to let someone know where she is: that is a normal safety habit.
On the day: punctuality and hygiene
Be on time. Advertisers plan their day around bookings. Ten minutes late is annoying. Thirty minutes late without a message usually means the meeting is off, and the time you booked does not get longer because you were late.
Confirm if asked. Many companions want a short confirmation an hour or two before. Answer it. No confirmation often means the slot goes to someone else.
Arrive fresh. A shower, clean nails, brushed teeth, no strong perfume. Most companions will offer a shower when you arrive anyway. Accept it without fuss.
Come sober. A drink to relax is fine. Arriving drunk or high is one of the most common reasons a meeting is ended early, and the advertiser has every right to do so.
Payment: simple and upfront
Have the agreed amount ready, ideally in cash and in the currency you agreed on. Many companions prefer to settle at the start so the rest of the time is relaxed. Putting the money where they can see it, in an envelope or simply on the table, is the usual polite way.
Do not try to negotiate at the door. The price was agreed in advance. Paramour does not handle payments for meetings, and you should never pay in advance to someone you have not met: here is why deposits are the most common scam.
During: limits are not a negotiation
The profile lists what a companion offers. Anything not on that list is a question, not an expectation. If the answer is no, accept it. Pushing, bargaining or trying again later spoils the meeting for both of you and may end it.
Condoms are standard. Do not ask to skip them.
Photos and videos are off limits unless you both clearly agreed beforehand. Keep your phone away. Do not ask personal questions about her real name, address or family. Small talk is welcome; an interview is not.
If plans change
If you cannot come, cancel as early as possible. A no-show without a message is the one thing advertisers remember. If she cancels, accept it politely: it happens on both sides.
After: leave on time, be fair
Leave when the booking ends, unless you agreed to extend. If you enjoyed the meeting, a short thank-you message is appreciated, and so is a fair review. On Paramour only registered members can write reviews, and advertisers can reply, so keep it honest and respectful and leave out intimate details.
If something went wrong, such as a different person than in the photos or pressure to pay more, use the Report button on the profile. Moderators look at every report.
Checklist before you go
- I agreed on the time, length, place and price.
- I answered the confirmation message.
- I showered and I am sober.
- I have the agreed amount in cash.
- My phone stays in my pocket.
- I know her limits from the profile and will respect them.
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Frequently asked questions
Should I bring a gift?
It is not expected. A clean, punctual, polite client is worth more than any gift.
Is it rude to ask about services before the meeting?
No, as long as you ask politely and only about things the profile does not already answer.
Can I extend the meeting on the spot?
Ask. If she has time she may agree, at the price for the longer booking. If she says no, she probably has another appointment.
Do I tip?
Tipping is not expected. If you want to, it is a personal choice.